• BDSM,  Beziehung,  Deutsch,  Englisch,  Swingerclub

    The first time in the Swingerclub

    Today was the first night i actually went to a swingerclub.

    It was one of the many things i decided i wanted to try to broaden my horizon when it comes to my sexuality 3 years ago. But first Covid happened and when i tried to try again, life happened. Several times.

    On Saturday this all changed. I had been in contact with a nice woman for a bit who lived close by. She is an experienced sub and we were talking about the possibilities of me learning how to be a dom from her.

    On a very spontanious note, we decided at 7:30 PM that we would go to a swingerclub together and she would show me the ropes (maybe literally.)

    I talked to my spouse, packed a sexy outfit and off i went. At around 9 PM we arrived at the club, and we knew beforehand, that it’s pretty much one of the lousiest clubs in the whole country. It’s basically a «McFuck».
    But it’s very cheap to visit, very close and my date made a good point by saying «If we start of with the worst place, it can only get better.» And i’m looking forward to it getting better if i’m being honest.

    We entered the club, handed the cashier our wallet (you pay when you leave) and went to the changing rooms. Luckily we were there as a couple, so we went into the much smaller room (a sign of things to come).
    I grabbed my towel and we took a shower, then it was time to get dressed.

    My date wore a black dress, made from a single piece of cloth, and nothing else. I decided to wear my sexy outfit i specifically bought for swingerclubs. Everybody else wore towels…

    ..

    My date then decided to show me around. First was a normal bedroom, with a lockable door. Next was a BDSM-Room with a lockable door. From the first second on, that we entered the area, we were followed closely by horny men.
    We took a corner? We were followed.
    She showed me the inside of a room? We were followed.
    Some of the guys weren’t even wearing a towel, probably to show off their «totally impressive» 4 inches-erections…

    We decided to go back to the bar area and comment on the porn being shown on the screens and just talk. Getting to know each other better.
    We knew the night would be a very special night, when we heard the music playing…

    Abenteuerland from Pur

    Because i wanted to increase my BDSM-Knowledge and maybe learn more about how to be a Dom we grabbed her bag (she brought her own accessories, because using someone elses is nasty) and we went into a room with a giant bed and bedposts on which you could chain up someone, if you wanted to.

    Isn’t it pretty?

    Of course we were followed by horny guys and an old guy (at least 60 if not 70) tried to follow us into the room. Because my date was experienced with this behaviour she basically kicked him out and we locked the door behind us.

    And then….

    We talked some more.

    Only distracted by the porn on the screen (seriously, every room had porn movies running) we kept talking. At least as good as we could, without being interrupted too much by the woman screaming and moaning in the room next to us. She definitely got her fun.

    After a while i was ready to learn some more. My date opened her bag and showed me her tools. Several nipple-clamps, several paddels and a rather big Dildo.
    Also a nice big whip she had just bought a few days before. Never been used.

    We decided that it would be time to test how it feels. But first we closed and locked the hatch someone opened to spy on us. (This place is just wild).
    Then my training began. She exposed her butt and kneeled on the bed. Then I started whipping her butt. First softly, then a bit harder and harder…

    As i said. She’s an experienced Sub. So my careful attempts did NOTHING at all. So i decided to really put some power into the whip. And now it actually had some effect. It didn’t really hurt much, but every time i hit her, the impact almost caused her to fall over forward. Not the expected result, but funny nontheless.

    Next i decided to try a small whip she actually made herself. This one definitely had more of a sting to it. After a few hit, she started to wince a bit. After a while it was time to move to the next step.

    A paddle with a red cushioned side and a black hard side. I kept hitting her butt with the cushioned side and now it really started to heat up. She winced again and again when the paddle hit her. It definitely helped, that she already got spanked pretty nicely the night before and i was basically working off of someone elses work.
    But neither of us was complaining.

    Becoming more forward, we decided to put nipple-clamps on her and not only spank her butt, but also her boobs. Now the winceing and moaning got stronger. We were on the right path.

    Standing behind her, i grabbed her throat and pulled her up, choking her a bit, while i was pulling on her nippleclamp with the other hand. She seemed to like it, because she started to moan and her hands were trying to grab my penis through my skirt.

    After having been such a nice «Training Dummy» i decided i wanted to reward her. She mentioned before we started, that we just wanted to have fun and she wasn’t there to get an orgasm. But that doesn’t mean one can’t try.

    We changed position. She was still kneeling on the bed, but now i was standing in an area with more room to move. I spanked her butt some more, while i also started to move my hand between her legs. My hand was stroking softly up and down and i slowly moved my middle finger inside her.
    She was definitely enjoying it and already wet. It was time to grab her dildo and some lube.

    While i kept stroking and sometimes spanking her butt, i also started moving the dildo inside of her. First slowly and carefully but over time deeper and harder. Now she also started to moan loudly and the music wasn’t hearable anymore.
    I couldn’t help but grin a bit, because in the bar she had actually said «well, if the music gets too badly, you just have to make me moan» and now we were able to shut out the music.

    I don’t know how long it took, but we spend the following time with me fucking her pussy with a big dildo while sometimes spanking her butt with the paddle, spanking her butt with my hand or rubbing her clit.
    In the meantime she was moaning and screaming and clearly enjoying it. Her foot trying to rub against my dick the whole time.

    We stopped after a rather big orgasm and i just held her, while she recovered a bit. Then she wanted to repay my kindness and i obliged by removing part of my underwear to give her mouth free access to my dick. I really enjoyed her tongue moving over my dick and balls. Her shoving my dick far down her throat and moaning when i decided to pinch her nipples while she was sucking me.

    At least until we heard Macarena running and we had to laugh way too much to keep going… It didn’t help, that there was a mirror on top of us and i could myself trying not to crack up over …Macarena.

    We got dressed again and went to the bar to get a coke and talk a bit more. At least if we weren’t interrupted by horny old men.
    One of them came to say goodbye and asked my date if he could touch her. So she allowed him to touch her leg.
    The other one was standing in the back, showing off his 4-inch-erection….
    Both were visably sad/offended by her not wanting to have their dicks inside or even near her.

    After she had sent them away we kept talking and making fun of the porn on screen. At least until we realized that the music had actually changed to friggin rock. Now it was absolute time for scientific discovery. I was convinced that the moment she would try to give me another blowjob, we would cause the music to turn bad again. She offered to blow me right there in the bar, but i prefered the idea of a room with a closed door.

    We went into a room with a big bed suspended in the air, being attached to the ceiling via four chains. She lay on her back, so i could use her mouth with my dick. At least when she wasn’t getting seasick from the motion and then it happened. Science was a success!

    Not the actual room, but almost.

    The «sexy» lights turned off, then normal lights went on. The music stopped completely.

    Her trying to give me a blowjob turned off the whole club!

    Or it could be that it was the fact, that the club had actually closed 15 minutes ago….

    We went back to the wardrobe. I took a shower. We paid and left.

    We kept talking a while afterwards. Then i went home, took another shower, put antibacterial lotion on my feet just to be sure, told my spouse everything that had happened that night and informed my date that i got home safely.

    So… this was my first trip to a swingerclub. It was definitely an experience. I lost a lot more respect towards men. I’ve grown a new fondness for Macarena, just out of sheer ridiculousness. And i know that i’ll never set foot into this club again.
    But i learned several new things. New techniques. New likings. New dislikings. And that Macarena can definitely kill a boner.